
Sunday, December 30, 2007
2007大告白

Bye Malacca, Hello Kajang
Yesterday carried big and heavy bags back to Kajang. I carried until I cannot stand and walk properly... (so heavy...) and my neck, hands, my back so pain.
When I reach Tmn Tenaga, very headache that I've to climb to the top floor of the apartment. Oh GOD!! Climb until I wanna pengsan!
My room was so dirty, although 1 month passed got people sleep here but I believe that they wouldn't tidy up the room. Dust, hairs...... (my roommate's hairs, they haven't come back yet. I always be the first:( )
Nothing to do, so bored!!! Yesterday night try to on-line but can't access to internet, I think is because they (my hse-mate) downloading.
Saturday, December 29, 2007
柏拉图式的爱

>>柏拉图认为:当心灵摒绝肉体而向往着真理的时候,这时的思想才是最好的。而当灵魂被肉体的罪恶所感染时,人们追求真理的愿望就不会得到满足。 当人类没有对肉欲的强烈需求时,心境是平和的,肉欲是人性中兽性的表现,是每个生物体的本性,人之所以是所谓的高等动物,是因为人的本性中,人性强于兽性,精神交流是美好的、是道德的。
>>在欧洲,很早就有被中国人称之为“精神恋爱”的柏拉图式的爱,这种爱认为肉体的结合是不纯洁的、是肮脏的,认为爱情和情欲是互相对立的两种状态,因此,当一个人确实在爱着的时候,他完全不可能想到要在肉体上同他所爱的对象结合。
>>在今天的人们看来,柏拉图的爱情观让人不可思议。而有一位美国学者却对今人所理解的这种柏拉图的爱情观,提出了新的见解。美国东西部社会学会主席、《美国家庭体制》一书的作者伊拉·瑞斯经研究后认为,柏拉图推崇的精神恋爱,实际上指的是同性之间的一种爱,也就是“同性恋”。古希腊人认为,同性恋的过程更多地是灵交、神交,而非形交。而在女性很少受教育的古希腊社会,男人很难从女人中找到精神对手。这就是柏拉图偏重男性之间的爱情的原因。柏拉图坚信“真正”的爱情是一种持之以恒的情感,而惟有时间才是爱情的试金石,惟有超凡脱俗的爱,才能经得起时间的考验。有愛無性,強調精神相交;亦有遠距離戀愛的一層意思(因爲離開得遠,自然就有愛無性)。 傳說柏拉圖當年就是這樣同情人相愛。”
Thursday, December 27, 2007
丑大了!~.~'

I hate hate ..2007 >o<

Why? Ox prediction said ox in pig year will lost things or stolen by others..why only happended on me le...Not fair le.........>< Beside, i always sick on tis year...
2day suppose don't came to U since only replace 1 hour class, tis class really not worth for exchange my 512mb pendrive + many notes le......i want cry le...who can lend me warm shourder...T.T
I total lost=Nokia hp+RM85+512Pendrive+health. When things happended again i totally want die la.....
I no mood attend 1pm class d.. i want back home find my pendrive le...since i already find all path in U d....
P/S: Fox u said want invite to celebrate tis end 2007, really make me angry le...~o~
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
**Invitation for New Year Party~~
圣诞平安夜+圣诞礼物*……*
Tuesday, December 25, 2007
X'mas eVe


一进去就被头顶上的彩灯深深吸引住太美丽了!^^'还有我的眼光也被一位男生吸引住,那就是我做gym的Master...

这是其中的一户人家,布置最美的“圣诞家".




不只外头喊来喊去4瓶Rm10,里头的摊子也卖着同样的snow spray...应该是“杀虫剂”吧!臭到要死!亏我朋友买了三次,每一次都买10几瓶..简直浪费钱和污染空气和街道。

我朋友的战阵开始了!


气死我!我以为我不犯人,人不犯我,那里知道他们也围攻我...害我满头雪花飘,而且还被人踩了数脚!早知不要穿我新买的白鞋去..T.T
可是他们也够义气!!当我们其中被人侵犯时,他们就开始暗中反战直到胜利...^o^v


Saturday, December 22, 2007
Me at Kuantan now ^^)
Hehehe...me at Kuantan now leh, my x-roomate, Kok Lip's home. I jz made decision to come here on this morning & we took 4:30pm bus, arrived on 8pm. I had planned to go home on Mon, X'mas eve,then back to KL again on Wed, lots of works haven't settle yet leh~~~
Let's talk about Kuantan... ermmm... when we got to here, day already late... My first perception was here so less road lights, seems like very dark...Even Kuantan is the capital of Pahang, but the surrounding seems like Malacca countryside area, like Ayer Keroh... Besides, can see many Malay around. Kok Lip said Malays are more than Chinese here....
At the moment, i don't have much views on this place. We straight away went back Kok Lip home.. We will only go outing tomorrow..so, that's all for tonight la... tomorrow just continue if time allowed..hehe...Good Night ~~~~~
Friday, December 21, 2007
Help me decide...^^'
Oh..my lovely friends..gv me some opinions which one design is nice..^^' hehe..i intend buy for New year or for formal cloths whn presentation..depend lah..u all think suitable for New year or formal work? ^o^v (A-F)
Why i suddenly like this type cloths? if not mistaken i influenced by a Horoscope's prediction said better buy tis kind of cloths for New Year o..beside, I also quite agree since i not very much for tis type cloths + tis cloths quite cheap too....hehe ^^ suddenly felt im being mature d..^o^'
A )
This 2 look like very kolot...^^ but quite formal..
B)
hehe..tis quite ok..rank 1st..^o^
C)
tis also nice ..rank 2nd although fasion quite same as above 1st rank..^^'
D)m...tis 2 design still ok.. look like also quite formal..
E)
Tis also very nice too very simple and look like "superwoman" hehe.. Beside, very familiar sight for S'pore artist got wear in mv...^^ agree?
F)
if u all look properly tis cloth very same as C) cloth but the design not 100% same la..especially the belt there...^^
P/S: hehe..tis New Year I must prepare for Sure Win..wahaha..^o^V
Thursday, December 20, 2007
鼓勵自己的26句話~
01.每天告訴自己一次,『我真的很不錯』。
02.生氣是拿別人做錯的事來懲罰自己。
03.明天的希望,讓我們忘了今天的痛苦。
04.發光並非太陽的專利,你也可以發光。
05.人總是珍惜未得到的,而遺忘了所擁有的。因此,獲致幸福的不二法門是珍視你所擁有的、遺忘你所沒有的。
06.貪婪是最真實的貧窮,滿足是最真實的財富。
07.你可以用愛得到全世界,你也可以用恨失去全世界。
08.年輕是我們唯一擁有權利去編織夢想的時光。
09.真正的愛,應該超越生命的長度、心靈的寬度、靈魂的深度。
10.愛的力量大到可以使人忘記一切,卻又小到連一粒嫉妒的沙石也不能容納。
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11.不論你在什麼時候開始,重要的是開始之後就不要停止; 不論你在什麼時候結束,重要的是結束之後就不要悔恨。
12.人若軟弱就是自己最大的敵人; 人若勇敢就是自己最好的朋友。
13.『不可能』只存在於蠢人的字典裡。
14.抱最大的希望,為最大的努力,做最壞的打算。
15.每一件事都要用多方面的角度來看它。
16.有理想在的地方,地獄就是天堂; 有希望在的地方,痛苦也成歡樂。
17.上帝從不埋怨人們的愚昧,人們卻埋怨上帝的不公平。
18.如果你曾歌頌黎明,那麼也請你擁抱黑夜.
19.當你能飛的時候就不要放棄飛; 當你能夢的時候就不要放棄; 當你能愛的時候就不要輕易放棄愛。
20.生命太過短暫,今天放棄了明天不一定能得到。
21.把你的臉迎向陽光,那就不會有陰影.
22.你的選擇是做或不做,但不做就永遠不會有機會.
23.如你想要擁有完美無暇的友誼,可能一輩子都找不到朋友。
24.得意時應善待他人,因為你失意時會需要他們。
25.好好扮演自己的角色,做自己該做的事。
26.珍惜身邊人。
***我找到的其实是“鼓勵自己的80句話”,怕太长了,所以选了自己最喜欢的并缩简成“鼓勵自己的26句話”。愿与大家共勉之~~~
**精句~~
每個人都有250位朋友,他們分別出現在兩種場合,一個是你的婚禮,一個是喪禮,而這些朋友有80%是對你毫無幫助,他們通常不會給你正面、積極的影響,當你渴望有任何作為的時候,他們通常會澆你冷水,告訴你種種的壞處和各種失敗的可能。 有20%的朋友,他們是屬於較積極的,會給你正面的影響,而有5%的朋友則會幫助你,重大改變,你的一生!所以,你對朋友們不該一視同仁,你應該花80%的時間跟那些會重大影響你一生,那5%朋友在一起。 ---喬吉拉德
希望我们是彼此那5%的朋友..
生命的意义在于付出,在于给予,而不是在于接受,也不是在于争取。---巴金
必须先舍,才能得..
達賴喇嘛說的西藏諺語: 「能解決的事,不必去擔心;不能解決的事,擔心也沒用。」
原谅敌人要比原谅朋友容易。 —— 狄尔治夫人
因为我们花在朋友身上的心思多过对于敌人..